Why do I need coaching?

Updated: Oct 1, 2020

What the heck is a coach? Why do I need to be told what to do with my life? Heck, I want to do it myself.





Well done. You're living the right mindset. And can I tell you something? If you're planning to hire a coach to help you do life... look no further - you're never getting one. In fact, if your coach promises you results, run fast and run far.





#1 Remember, coaches are not doctors.

Yes, we do not give you the cure nor the solution. We should not be prescribing because we cannot tell you what to do with your life. If you are insistent on not changing, that's when you'll take time to change. NLP is not magic. It is not manipulation. A coach cannot provide answers to your life because every individual is unique and you have to work out the answers that you want for yourself.


#2 Remember, your results are your responsibility.

Yes, you need to take action to get what you want. Coaches cannot be there to force you to get what you want. We can help you see the tools that you have or see the possibilities in front of you, and if you want to move, you're only left with this question: how far? You'll move. And with the effort that you put in, you'll get closer to your desired state in time to come. The moment you decide to change, your change will begin.


#3 Remember, you are investing in yourself.

Yes, many people see the price of hiring a coach and decide to save on the investment. "I'll do it on my own," they say. What specifically will you be doing, though? What specifically do you want? And how specifically will you be going about getting what you want? What are the concrete steps to take? What's preventing you from getting what you want right now? These are questions you might want to seriously consider when coaching yourself and if you are extremely clear on your answers, go get them!


#4 Remember, the resources that you get from coaching are for life.

Yes, no one can take them away from you. After coaching, whatever that you have in your hands will remain with you for life. With them, you'll be able to open up further possibilities for yourself and move even further. Ever since I started learning NLP, I've grown to see more and more possibilities in front of me, and I've grown to move further and faster each day. How far do you want to go?


You'll be empowered with coaching and I can't wait to see you go far and you'll see so many more possibilities in front of you. Are you ready for change?



How far do you want to go?

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